Often in the course of life we are brought together due to a single event in tragedy or celebration. One pivotal moment that unifies the world for a moment in time. Often these events remain in our memory bank for generations to come. The same is true in our own lives. We do something with our children or partner that will become a critical memory for us, grandchildren are born, etc. They are events that are often life changing.
There are also moments in our lives where we find ourselves at a crossroads. We know that the choice(s) we make will define the rest of our days: college, relationships, children. Of course, when faced with the unknown there is the immediate reaction to turn around and go back. But, we don’t. We can’t.
My year of 50 has been one of those “moments” where I’ve felt at a crossroads. I’ve made some turns and have not stood still, but I’ve looked around. Almost through a lens to make sure that I am focused on the things to be grateful for, rather than the things I want to accomplish. Because, I know that the latter type of view is a never-ending race for happiness and fulfillment. I don’t want to live that way – I know you don’t either.
These events and moments in our lives, should give us pause. They are the times that we really can stop and ask ourselves, “Is my happiness dependent on what I think I want or is it based on what I already have?”
There is no particular reason for today’s blog other than a moment I had yesterday. A moment where I realized that I was not paying attention to something in my life. I literally stopped in my tracks and started to cry. It was a relief. The relief was the recognition that I wasn’t paying attention and that I can pay attention and make a change. It’s that simple. That moment yesterday will be one of those defining, critical moments in my life that will stay with me forever. I know we all have these moments. However, we don’t always pay attention.
Watch for those moments in your own life; Those key instances of opportunity, serendipity, calamity, or chaos – that will likely have a profound consequence on your life. They are both painful and precious. They will give you direction and keep you centered on the “direction” of your life.
Have an absolutely wonderful day!
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