Ask yourself the question: What do I know for sure? What’s your list?
I know a few things for sure, I think: I know my kids came from me and their dad. I know that I’m sitting in front of a computer right now. I know I’ve got a few bug bites from the last few days! And, I know that I can hear the birds chirping.
I believe that the sun will rise in the morning because I believe that it is likely that the pattern of the sun rising will repeat itself. I also believe that the earth revolves on its axis giving the impression of the sun “rising” every morning. But am I sure it will happen tomorrow? Of course, the universe is subject to scientific laws and is generally consistent, right? But, does the universe exists entirely within my own mind? Maybe a little much for a Friday after a holiday but you get my point.
Every thing that we believe we “know” for sure is actually based on our own assumptions about reality.
I assume that the universe obeys scientific laws and is objective. Unfortunately, that’s an assumption I have to make, rather than an undeniable truth, because it would be impossible to prove that claim (sorry Dad). But my point is not a scientific one (Obviously. I’m an attorney!) My point is that these assumptions or “constructs” we build in our minds to understand reality can be incredibly useful and incredibly destructive.
I’ve come to realize that we have a built-in feedback mechanism — an inner GPS — that allows us to get accurate feedback on who we are and where we’re at. However, we don’t always use our own GPS — in fact, sometimes we physically shut it off when it’s “bothering” us or we use someone elses!
The only way to really know anything is to listen to your inner voice – your true, authentic self. It’s your compass…your directional force. I’ve learned in this last year that it’s essential to pay attention to the whispers of my inner voice, those quiet nudges to make a change, to go on a different path in my life.
But, it takes courage. Courage to take a no-holds barred, clear-eyed look at your life. To pay attention to your own feelings and authentic inner voice and give them credence. It takes courage to take charge of your life and make your own decisions and to focus on what’s important to you, not someone else.
Take a look at your GPS. Is it taking you where you want to go? If not, throw in some fresh batteries and fire it up again. Then, decide where you want to be, set the address and enjoy the ride!
Today, my GPS is set for Connecticut to get my daughter! I hope you all have a great start to your weekend!
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