Yes, today is the unofficial first day of summer (really?), and a day off for most Americans. Fire up the barbecue. Do some shopping. Pools and beaches typically open today, although it was still winter last week.
But we have the day off for a reason. Because we want to celebrate and remember the millions of Americans who have given up their lives for their country. Memorial Day began as Decoration Day in the aftermath of America’s Civil War. Did you know that on this day, the American flag is run all the way up to the peak in the morning, then immediately lowered to half-staff until noon? The flag is returned to full-staff thereafter.
While we often fill this day up with other things, it’s important that we remind our children why we have this day off. We must tell them there is no greater sacrifice than a life — a life to protect other lives. My kids, and maybe yours too, think of going into the service as a way to have college paid for them. The aren’t taught that it is service to the country. We also need to tell them how critical it is to take care of these men and women when they return home.
I also use this day to remember my grandparents and mom — and others who have passed. I plant flowers, bring up a few memories and remind myself why I miss them. Today, the kids and I are going to spend time together. We’re going to join my tri-group for a family track work out, go out for lunch and plant some flowers at the cemetery and join in on a BBQ later this evening. My poor daughter has her first final tomorrow morning so she’ll be doing a bit more studying.
Whatever you do, take a moment to remember those who died for their country. And for those of you who’ve lost someone in service – Thank You. We know your sacrifice is the ultimate one.
Have a wonderful day.
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