On Monday someone usually asks me, “How was your weekend?” I will often say something like … it was short, the weather was nice, fun … you know, statements that are true but don’t describe, in detail, the weekend. Of course, those people who ask (like the check-out person at the grocery store) often don’t want a rendition of my entire weekend and I get that. But this weekend was especially nice and it made me think (what doesn’t?!) about why it was different.
I spent all three nights this weekend with some combination of my family and close friends (my family members are some of my closest friends anyway!). It made me contemplate the notion of about how we connect with people and how important that connection is – certainly for me. Facebook, skype, text messaging and email have taken over as our preferred method of communicating. Sometimes to our detriment. I do it. I’m doing it here. I’ve done it for years. I see the benefit of that connection. But I was reminded this weekend that there is nothing better than a phone call where you actually hear their voice or a face-to-face visit where you can hug them or see their smile. I miss that part in my oh-so-busy life. I’m sure you do too.
I took advantage of that time this weekend and it was fantastic! As a result, I’m going to make an effort to reconnect – in person – with those close to me or those I want close to me. We all say that life is short. But, I say life is long – we just shorten it by not keeping our eyes open and our arms around those we love.
THANKS to my family and friends who make my life so special … be prepared for a call or email from me to plan an in-person visit! And to my friend yesterday – it was great sharing a pack of gum with you.
Hug your kids and call someone for lunch! Have a great Monday!
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